Dating Tips for Guys

Here's how to make a woman see YOU as an alpha male:

1. You have to be willing to lay your ego at risk of getting rejected.

If you learn any one thing to come across like an alpha male, it is this. Guys that are skittish around women because they fear rejection will NEVER be seen as an alpha male, no matter how hard that they try. This is the one element that will really set you apart from the other guys and make it readily apparent that you are a true alpha male. It's not about muscles, because I have met some guys that spend a ton of time in the gym, and yet, when they get around a woman, they act like a wimp and they end up getting passed over.

2. You have to be able to make her feel secure around you in more ways than one.

When I say that you need to make her feel secure, most guys will think about the ability to physically protect her. Well, that is not the only thing that you need to focus on. Especially in today's day and age, it's not nearly as necessary to protect her physically, as it is to protect her social reputation, and her emotions. Being able to let her know that you are not the kind of guy to kiss and tell, and you are not the kind of guy to let her emotions get the best of her will signal that you are a TRUE alpha male.

3. To put her over the top and know that you really are the alpha male she has been searching for, you have to be a guy that is going places.

Look, you don't have to be reaching for your spot on the Forbes 500 list, you don't have to be striving to have the next platinum CD, and you don't have to be vying for the next Hollywood blockbuster to be going places. You just cannot be the guy that sits at home in his apartment playing video games and drinking beers and think that she is going to see you as a true alpha male.

How To Attract And Meet Women

The basics of attracting and meeting women begin with being you and not to try to be something or someone else. Some men feel that a woman will be more attracted to them if they have glamorous jobs. or names that even a celebrity would be envious of. For this reason some men will go so far as to manufacture a fictitious job and change their name for a night. Most women can see right through such a ruse. Be yourself. If you are a janitor be proud of it and if you have a name that has a dozen consonants, teach her how to pronounce it and be proud of it.

Women do not enjoy being with men that are indecisive. Don't ask where she would like to go on a date. Tell her you would like to take to... wherever. If she does not like it then don't ask her to decide but do ask her to make a suggestion. There is a difference. If you ask her to decide where to go you are not being decisive, which means you cannot make a decision and you are looking for her to do it for you.

Don't forget that every person is unique which means we all have different personalities. If you are you when you meet a woman she will be more impressed and see you as a truly unique person. If you try to hide your true personality she will see right through you and lose interest.

No matter where you go or what you do, there will be conversation. Do not monopolize the conversation by talking about yourself. Be a good listener and hear what she is talking about and reply with true but subtle feelings. Add to the conversation if you truly can. Above all do not tell her she is wrong or she did the wrong thing. But make suggestions if the situation allows it.

How To Be More Interesting After A Date

You should limit your contact a bit. You don't want to be constantly around the person after you have had a good date with someone. You should talk a little bit but try to leave them wanting more. This doesn't mean that you ignore them but gauge their interest a bit this way.

Talk about seeing the person again but don't set a date yet. This will leave him or her wonder when you will ask for another date and really look forward to it. Talk a few times first and get to know the person.

Leave stories or things to talk about saved for the next time that you go on your date. These are things that you bring up letting the person know that you will talk about them more in depth next time. This will make the person ready for it wanting a little bit more.

Don't do anything stupid on that first date. If you embarrass yourself or your date, your interest will drop quickly. Don't be pushy and don't try to make your date uncomfortable. This is a huge mistake that will make having a second date very difficult.

Try to get more contact information from the person you just took on the date. This might be a cell number, Twitter, instant messaging, email, or whatever you don't really have yet. This sends the message that you really would like to talk more and get to know the person better having a bit easier access. This makes you a bit more interesting since they will feel a bit flattered you want more of them.

Guy Gets Girl

Seducing and eventually attracting somebody that you like is not easy. This is especially true to those who are not born with attractive assets. While men tend to get attracted easily to curvaceous and beautiful women, women on the other hand are into the personality, which is something that cannot be seen. So to those who are not hunks, there are still a lot of ways to get a girl to like you. Firstly, make impressions last by dressing properly and neatly. Appearing clean and smelling fresh are also a must. Do not boast as boasting can never make a talk sensible. Girls tend to get away with braggarts. Listen to the girl's part and be thoughtful and sensible when making conversations. Praise her. Complement her if she looks beautiful and alluring. Girls love to be appreciated. Make her smile. Tell jokes and let out humor to get her attention or to make conversing worthwhile. Flirt. Make eye contacts especially when you are talking to her. Show that gorgeous smile. Lastly tell her that you like her. This way you will also know if she likes you as friends only or into something else deeper than that. Whatever her decision, remain as a friend to her. To make relationship lasting, treasure her. Make her feel loved and endeared. This would surely make her stick with you forever.

At the end of the day, you just have to be yourself. If it doesn't work out, there are plenty of fish in the sea. As long as you are nice and genuine, eventually you will find the perfect girl.

Advice For Understanding Women Dating

Be true to who you are and choose clothes that are comfortable for your style. If your date pays you a compliment on the cologne you are wearing, you must wear it for your next two to three dates, and then wear a different fragrance.Your date will appreciate the way you look and the image you project. Be prepared to attend social affairs and events like parties, singles nights at bars or any other occasion where singles could be. Remember that you shouldn't always be available every time she calls, try to play a little bit and make her get more interested about you by refusing some invitations.

Don't force a relationship until you are sure there is good chemistry between you and her. You might not know right away if she is the woman of your dreams. The effort required will yield good results. Love can bloom in an instant during a relationship, so it's critical that you consider your feelings for her. It might be a long road ahead of you. Even though you have learned more about dating and understanding women, it is still important to maintain a sense of self. Nobody likes a phony, women included. Be yourself or you'll pay the price. Ladies will find you appealing both for what you are and what you aren't. Having a committed relationship with a woman is really healthy. When you fall in love with "the one" you will be the happiest man on earth. What's holding you back? Go on and begin searching for that special gal!!

How to Attract Women

Ever heard of the phrase, "feminine energy"? David Deida, author of "The Way of the Superior Man", explains that men and women both have a particular type of energy. Masculine energy is all about clarity, vision, analysis, logic, and purpose. To give you an extreme example, Deida describes the caricature of masculine energy as "the macho jerk". It's masculine energy that's responsible for the typical male attitude to sex, which is persistent, steady, unfluctuating, independent of mood or emotion, undemanding in terms of emotional commitment, and is almost immediately a priority.

Feminine energy is more about being carefree, sensuous, vibrant, colorful, empathetic, creative, and expressive. People whose energy is primarily feminine are usually very emotional and communicative. They prize connectedness and interpersonal relationships over sex. Someone with a feminine energy would value cuddles and pillow-talk just as much as, if not more than, physical sex; someone with a more masculine energy would focus more on ravishing their sexual partner, with emotional communication and cuddling coming a distant second.

Deida also makes the point that not all men have a primarily masculine energy, just as not all women have a feminine energy. This is why some men genuinely enjoy discussing their emotions, dissecting relationship problems, and 'dishing' with others about the state of other people's lives and relationships. It's also why some women are professionally driven, economic achievers, are very focused on attaining set goals, and enjoy sex with multiple partners without needing or wanting much of an emotional connection with them.

You will find, though, that most people - both men and women - have an energy that exists primarily in accordance with their actual gender. I.e. most men have a mainly masculine energy, with aspects of femininity. Most women have a primarily feminine energy, with aspects of masculinity. For example, if push came to shove, the average woman would prioritize home life and family above her professional life, but it would not be an easy decision for her. She would still value her career very highly indeed, and devote plenty of energy and time to it.